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Dating with Russian or Ukrainian Women
Learn about their Character and Personality Traits

Before beginning the process of dating with single Russian or Ukrainian women, it is not a bad idea to do some learning about their character and personality traits. They are definitely different from those of women from countries of the West. Learning about their culture and traditions is also advisable and it will most likely help to develop a relationship with a woman from Russia or Ukraine.

Just as it is in most countries, life in the big city and life in the village are quite different. A woman who lives in a small Russian or Ukrainian village may be willing to move to a big city and vice versa but it may not be that easy to convince a girl who lives in Moscow, St-Petersburg or Kiev to move to the country. Women living in these big cities of Russia and Ukraine are less representative of the image that we have of the typical Russian woman from former USSR years. They are usually more contemporary and more career-oriented than women living in small villages, who are generally more traditional and family oriented.

However, regardless of if they live in a big city or in small village, they have one thing in common: they live in a region of the world where there are about 10 million more women than men. So, theoretically, there are about as many single women. Of course, not all these single women are looking for a life partner. And for those who are, most of them would love to find a husband locally but unfortunately for them, it is not that simple. So, many decide to broaden their search of a husband to other countries. Here is an interesting article that depicts the difficulty that many Russian women and Ukrainian women have to find a life partner in their own country. Many men from UK and other countries are aware of this and travel to Belarus, Russia and Ukraine with the intention of finding a wife.

How to be Best Prepared to Begin Dating
With a Woman from Russia or Ukraine – what To Do and Not To Do

• Russian women and Ukrainian women are known to seek older man for husband. This is even more so when they are seeking a life partner from abroad. It's usually a question of stability and financial security related to the big decision of moving to another country. However, we suggest remaining realistic and try to keep an age difference of 15 years maximum. A larger age gap can work in the short and mid-term, but it can decrease the chances of survival of the couple in the long term.


• As in any relationship, communicate in a polite and respectful manner and simply be yourself; remain humble. Russian women and Ukrainian women generally like men who are down to earth and have realistic goals and who don’t hesitate to take decisions to reach their goals.


• Russian women live in the biggest country of the world and they are proud of their culture and heritage. About Ukrainian women, they also live in a big country, Ukraine being one of the biggest countries in Europe. As most people do now and then, Russian women and Ukrainian women can speak negatively about certain facets of their own country, but we strongly suggest to no elaborate on this but to simply focus on positive subjects.


• Traditionally, Russian women and Ukrainian women consider their husbands as a strong leader and the head of the family. Yet, this does not mean at all that they wish to have a passive role in the couple. Quite the contrary, they want to be involved in decisions and generally speaking, they have a lot of common sense and a very good judgment. As a Russian proverb says, "the man is the head and the woman is the neck - the head can only look where the neck is willing to turn to.


• We also suggest to not talk too much about your past relationships, especially not in a negative way. In fact, avoid negative topics and focus on positive ones. Talk about yourself, your personality, your children if any, your passions, your family, your friends, your work and your goals in life. Make sure she is comfortable to do the same as you want to learn as much of herself as well.


• Do not write her that you are in love with her before you even met in person and don’t tell her so at a first or even second meeting. Remember that chemistry and love can only be felt when meeting face to face and still, love does not usually happens after spending a few hours together. Simply be patient and give it time, if it is meant to happen, it will.


• If you are wealthy, it is not advisable to disclose this for a while. First because there are many rich men in Russia or Ukraine, so if that is her main criteria in a husband, she would probably have found him in her own country. Second, you don’t want to take the chance that a woman would be interested in you because of what you have instead of who you are. So, keep this quiet and tell her later; it will be a bonus for her and some kind of insurance for you.


• Don’t talk about intimacy and sex. Don’t even try to kiss her on the mouth at a first meeting. Russian women and Ukrainian women are very normal and nothing wrong there but they are usually a bit old fashioned on this. Be patient and let it happen naturally and don’t worry, if it is meant to happen, it will.


• Ask questions but not like if you were interviewing someone. Don’t try to dig too much to get to know all about her life and her past. What matters is that she is single, eligible to marry and that she is genuinely interested in you. That is what is important and what you should focus on. Remind her that you are not the type of man to keep the relationship at the virtual level for too long and that you will take action to go meet her in the near future. This should definitely capture and maintain her attention towards you. Needless to say, it is important to respect your word and follow-up with actions.


• Ask her what she knows about your country and how she would see herself living there with you. Let her know that you inquired about how you can facilitate her integration to your country by finding out about different available resources, taking language lessons etc.


• The above suggestions are from a man who found his Russian wife through an online dating site. These tips and advice can work for some people and not for others. We all have our own way of doing things and what matters the most is simply to reach our goals. Nonetheless, if you follow these recommendations, at least in a general way, you may increase your chances of finding a charming Russian or Ukrainian wife.